I dislike it – I dislike it A LOT actually.
Even through my troubles, heartbreaks and what not I have learned that there ALWAYS is a way – even if it means taking a detour for a while – but the point is there’s a way.
I think sometimes people have a difficult time understanding what “being negative” means. For instance – there is a project on the horizon and one should be excited about it – but simple words such as “if we have the money” have a negative undertone. The person stating that may not see it that way – but a person like me is offended because to me it is a put down. I would have much rather heard – a supporting excitement about the project with the firm believe that we will make it happen.. somehow.
But I am also trying to learn that perhaps it wasn’t meant as a negative connotation but rather a matter-of-fact statement… and that’s it.
But it is so darn difficult for me.
I would love everyone to just be excited about everything they are about to do.
We don’t get to our goals and dreams without hard work – without penny pinching – without some sacrifices. I have very much learned this exact concept in the last year since I had my store. I made a lot of sacrifices I penny pinched A LOT and I worked hard to make sure other folks get the recognition for their handmade work. I may have not always been on the top of my game for reasons that are slowly emerging into the picture – but I certainly did give it my best.
But I don’t recall being negative
Not once
Nope – there is always a way. Even I think that sometimes people get sick of me and my optimism. But I also think it is the same energy that inspires other people – through my stories and my experiences I am still so positive about -
Everything!
My problem however is that I don’t handle negativity and pessimism well – and I am so trying to learn to be flexible.. geez I have to be – it is part of my job description.
Well I am off to be inspired and be inspired and not worry about negativity…
Peace!
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